Yes, Blocked Virgina, that is my way of saying imperforate hymen
A lot of ladies go through this predicament I am about to share with you.....
My Story
I am a woman who had always believed in sex after marriage. I believed in keeping myself for the right man- my husband. It could sound so traditional to some people but others can understand this idea better.
I clocked 25 on November 12, 2016, and Yes I am engaged to my longtime boyfriend, who had come to pay for my Bride price. Though the final ceremony is yet to be held, we are partially husband and wife now.
At this time I thought it is the right time for him to taste my 'honeypot' after having waited for so long long. Dele had been such a gentleman, he understood when i asaid 'No Sex' and yet stayed committed to our relationship.
To cut the long story short..... the night i had always dreamt and fantasised about came, but it turns out to be worst night in my existence!
Why the worst night, You might ask!
It is because my husband couldnt penetrate my virgina! After pre-intimacy of about 48minutes, getting his thing inside me turns out to be climbing Mount Everest. Every Stroke was met by a solid wall that stood unyeilding. All my dream and expectation about lovemaking shattered along with my self esteem. Dele gathered me in his arm , and told me not to worry. He said it was hard to penetrate because it was my first time.
Unfortunately, second time was the same as the first. The same thing repeated itself over and over again. And I felt bad and sore. My acclaimed honeypot hurts so much after trying different styles and technique. Infact to get a finger to penetrate is so hard, dehumanizing and painful.
After three weeks of trying and subsequently failing, i decided to talk to people who i taught know a thing or two. All their solutions could not help my situation. Even I personally tried inserting diffrerent stuff of differernt size, but i ended up wounding my selfworth and dignity the more.
A conversation with my doctor saved me and my marriage, as medical investigation showed I have an 'Imperforate Hymen'..
imperforate hymen |
How I got healed ,and what my predicament is all about shall be dicussed in my next article...
But before then, if you are going through the same predicament, be calm because there is solution. You can search for eHealth organization e.g EmpowHer.com [http://www.empowher.com/], for help. Most especially, you must consult with a gyneacologist who may help you better.
No comments:
Post a Comment
We appreciate YOU reading this, please Leave a comment!